Am I being "ablest"

My boyfriend told me I'm being ablest. He has a close friend. They've been friends for 15+ years and when he was 16 he got into a car accident that left him paralyzed from his waste down. I like going out clubbing and invited some friends and my boyfriend invited his best friend. I would told him he can't really enjoy a club but my boyfriend said they've went out clubbing before and they have fun. I told him I feel like he will just slow us down. We will have to go to a car with an accessible wheelchair ramp and if they don't have a handicap bathroom he will need help. If he gets too drunk then my boyfriend will have to push his chair because he has a harder time maneuvering it when he's drunk. It just sounds like a lot of work and I like to spend clubbing having fun, not trying to accommodate someone else. Am I being a jerk?