Help, is he not turned on by me?

Question

My partner and I have been on and off for over a year. He has only ever cum once through intercourse. He seems to loose energy and just stop. I dont know how to change this pattern.

Answer

Why have sex and put energy towards someone that’s just their for a good time? Please value yourself and end it. He clearly doesn’t have interest in making you feel good about yourself.

Answer

there could be alot of reasons but it’s not you. does he take any medications? is he depressed? also if he masturbates a lot then that can 1. make it take longer to finish and 2. cause guys to have less sensitivity when it’s not their hand. maybe you should talk about it with him and he could consider seeing a doctor about it

Answer

It sounds like the two of you need to have a talk about sex and what you both need.

Help, is he not turned on by me?

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