Tell me what you think

So my husband was messaging women online. I confronted him and said if he wants to break up then let's do that because sneaking around really infuriating me 🤬🤬

He says it's me he wants and I think I owe it to our children to try to make things work.

That was last month.

Then the other night I was the last one awake. I went and locked the front door and went to bed about 1am. Got up to take the kids to school and the front door is unlocked 🧐 I asked my husband assuming he had gone out to smoke a cigarette. He blames our teenager who isn't even at home, he's staying over at a friend's house. When I told him that he just went "oh"

He wasn't at all bothered that the door had mysteriously unlocked it's self so it was obviously him. Then last night I woke up in the middle of the night and he was messaging someone but as soon as I moved he quickly turned his phone away so I can't see the screen. Am I just overthinking?? I don't have any actual evidence so if I ask him Im sure he will say it's nothing.

We have FOUR kids together 🥺