I think I’ve finally came to realization that I may have to get a divorce in the future if things don’t change. For the past 4 months, he’s been very lazy. I’m always having to be on him to get things done around the house or remind him to pay bills or get things done on time (taxes, work meetings, dog duties, etc). It’s always nagging at him and there’s times when he even admits he didn’t get it done cause he was lazy or “forgot”.

It sucks! I don’t want to be a Mom to him. I want an actual child. And whenever he does help, and we get occupied for the whole day doing chores or running errands, he complains that he didn’t get a chance to relax! 1 day of an hour of relaxing isn’t enough for you? Because you didn’t get to “game” or watch your show you’re mad? Being a Dad isn’t easy and if he can’t step up to the plate, I’ll have to leave him and find someone who will. Because I refuse to have a child with someone who won’t help me and only make me resent them.