So we have been trying to work things out. And got back together November 1st. Broke up a couple times in between. No, we're talking about marriage. And there are some things I needed to get off my chest. During our separation, even before I decided I Wanted a divorce. I found out he had slept with somebody And got the pregnant. Now here we are two years later. He hasnt even met his son. And now has to pay child support. He is still paying Child support to me. But that will end when We get married. Along with my food stamps in medicaid. He is awful with Managing money. He takes his money out of his bank account and puts it into his Venmo. Then over the month his account goes into the negatives. The next month he pays it back and does it again. I don't understand how he can do that. I've tried talking to him about finances. But he just says that this is how he's been doing it and it works for him. I will not marry him If this is how it's going to be. He needs to let me handle all finances.. I will not move in with him until we can get a bigger place. He has a 3 bed 2.5 bath apartment. There would be 6 of us living there. 3 girls in one bedroom, his son and the other. And then the master bedroom. It's just not big enough. Then I would have to sell all of my stuff, Or get a storage unit. Am I wrong for feeling frustrated by this? I don't know what to do.