Post registry link or no?

I’m not having a baby shower for our 2nd baby which is our rainbow baby. Our babies have 3 years difference between them and what’s on my registry is basic small items that we need that are left. None of my family has checked in on me during this pregnancy or give a damn in helping in any way and my stepmom said it would make me look rude, greedy and entitled if I just posted my link - no obligations of course- to my socials in case any of my friends were wanting to get me things and couldn’t. Or family that lives in other states.

it’s been a medically rough pregnancy and my OB said it’s very possible my body could go into early labor with what’s going on. If I can hold him in until 38 weeks which is the max I can, we have 7 weeks left and I’m not ready 😅😭

So my question is, would it be a rude, entitled or greedy thing for me to post a polite post with my registry link for our babe since we didn’t get to celebrate like me & others of my friends were wanting to do. Picture of our cute rainbow babies foot for tax 🥹