(19/20 yrs old)

So I’ve been dating this man for 2 years and he recently broke up with me as he said we were fighting a lot over stupid things and it was very overwhelming. I did think this myself when we were together but In my mind I just always assumed that relationships aren’t perfect and you are going to encounter this.

So maybe 2/3 weeks passed and he feels stupid for ending the relationship and says that we can work on it together, that this time it will be better if we communicate and focus on ourselves.

So we are currently in the getting back together stage and it’s been a month…

to me it feels like i’m repeating history but Idk there’s a part of me that wants to keeping going for the hope that it will get better, that maybe it’s a stressful time.

When we fight I feel like shit, I genuinely feel as though I need to dumb it down and talk like a parent to him because he doesn’t understand how I feel.

And I’m not going to lie we have stupid fights every now and again but when we aren’t fighting, the relationship is soooo good.

I’m just confused and need advice because I obviously love him but from time to time I feel lost.