Tips for beginners 💓

Hello everybody 💓

Since I’m just starting my sexual journey with my partner, I have a few questions and maybe you beautiful ladies can help me out.

Is it normal that the first few times sex hurt ? And if yes is it possible that it hurts a bit more when the partner has a bit a wider penis?

Is there anything i can do to make it less painful? Maybe a position ?

Is lube a game changer for the first few times? Is it easier?

How can i make myself pee after sex? Should i chug water?

💓💓thank you all for helping me out💓💓