Bf annoyed with me because I’m sick and can’t go to his brothers wedding

I’m soo livid right now. My bf went on a work trip last week and came back with a cold. He eventually passed that cold to me and I’ve lost 4 days from work. I went back to work one day and realized I am still sick, my ear has been blocked for 3 days at this point. So I go to the doctor after work and he gives me antibiotics & Sudafed for an ear infection. I asked the doctor if it would be wise to be on a plane for 5 hours the next day and he politely said no, you will be in a lot of pain and risk damaging your eardrum. Basically I shouldn’t fly with a blocked tube. So I told my bf I need to cancel the trip because of this. On top of that, I’m still unwell. I can barely go to the grocery store without extreme fatigue. My colds are usually not like this but that’s besides the point. IM SICK!

My bf left at the usual time yesterday and asked me this morning if I can fly. And I said my ear is still blocked. He said so you can’t come? He’s making it out like I don’t feel bad enough already, like I’m choosing to be sick. I’m really stressed. The other day he even mentioned that I shouldn’t of gone to work that one day as if my choice to do that is why I’m not better and I can’t go lmao this stress will never make me better at this point 🫠🫠

I can tell he is sad but using anger to show his disappointment that I’m not there. Idk how to deal with this I’m getting too angry 😩😩

I asked him does he really want me to fly with an ear infection and blocked ear? And he said idk if you want to. I’m just like wow 🥺

How would you guys deal with this?