Thoughts...

Am I the asshole? Husband got mad at me for doing the dishes when he had asked me to clean. He scolded me in front of our daughter. Later he said he had clarified he had said clean the floor not the dishes, all I had heard was clean. I feel like I'm taking crazy pills, how could he seriously mad at me for doing dishes? And furthermore I had just put the baby down for a nap and really wanted to rest but instead did the dishes to help him since he was also cleaning and was clearly in a bad mood and he still got mad at me and I missed getting rest...

We keep getting into fights like this and I'm so tired. I guess I'm just looking for some "your not crazy" type of energy idk because when we talk he feels very justified in his actions to be upset because he had asked me to clean the floor.