Bf told me me his friend’s gf is super wet?

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I am an SA survivor and intimacy is no longer sowmthing I’m extremely comfortable with but I try for my bf. He came home a few nights ago and starts telling me ab his his best friend’s girl is super wet and doesn’t need to use lube. I’m disgusted and I’m also just embarrassed for myself bc I can’t put out like that. I also am now paranoid he cheated and wants to rub it In my face because I can’t figure out any other reason he’d tell me. Thoughts? Ty :<

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That's actually fucking disgusting for him to even know that about his friends girl & even more that he came home & told you. I'd personally just break up.

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It’s really weird that someone would share that information with him and even weirder that he would share that info with you. Like no one wants their partner discussing the intimate details of their sex lives with their friends. It’s weird AF. I don’t think I would want to be with someone like that because what if he’s sharing your personal details with his friends? It’s weird.

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that’s really fucking gross, it seems like him and his friends get very comfortable conversationally, but that’s nothing he should be boasting to you about. you don’t deserve to be made to feel inferior and unworthy just because of a man’s lack of social filter !! talk to him about it and tell him you’re uncomfortable with it, and also about your paranoia. personal experiences lead me to say that your gut feeling about him cheating is right 😭🫶🏻

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It could be that the conversation randomly came up while talking to his best friend. Some people are comfortable with those types of conversations. If its making you uncomfortable talk to him about it and see what his intentions were in telling you. Maybe it was just a random thing he wanted to mention.

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First, please see a therapist. 
Second, although perhaps too much info, sounds like he’s sharing a conversation he had with his friend about their sex life. Not rubbing in your face or cheating or anything else. Perhaps he’s trying to have a conversation about needs during sex. Maybe he’s unsure how to ask you about these intimacy issues. Have a conversation with your partner. That is the most logical step here. 
If my partner simply had sex out of obligation, was never aroused, excited or wanting intimacy- it’d be something to discuss and fix.

Bf told me me his friend’s gf is super wet?

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