Mother in law rant

I’m starting to hate going to my mother in laws. We moved to WA in august of 2023. We go over to my in laws weekly for dinner. These past couple times it’s so emotionally draining to go. Mother in law is so negative, saying 2021-2023 has been the worst year of her life. How she hates her job, her hates dad, or my husbands siblings have done something wrong. It’s a constant emotional toll on me when we go. I’ve stopped bringing up her job or asking how things are because she’s always complaining. I understand every once in a while needed to let it out and talk about stuff but it’s always something.

Yesterday it was my husbands birthday, they came over and then she started cussing out one of her kids for disagreeing with her. Then talked about how her jobs going to send her to the hospital because of the stress. I feel like my husbands birthday was over looked.

The more time we spend with them the less happy I am. The siblings do it to 21,17,16. They complain about their mom and fight with eachother. They have one last week of school then mother in law and the two youngest will be out for the summer. I just don’t want to be spending a lot of time with them because of how negative they are.