Father’s Day!…. Do I even try?

Going to try to make a long story short..

My husband is an alcoholic and has no desire to fix the problem. Last night he decided to leave the house at 7pm to drink with a buddy. Our kids were not in bed yet at this time so I did the night time routine by myself.

So through out the night the baby is waking me up for feedings I keep checking and he is not home yet. The house is unlocked because he doesn’t have keys. Finally by 2:30am I text him telling him I’m locking up because it’s unsafe to leave the house unlocked all night. We have our camper in the driveway he can sleep in.

Well this morning i wake up to his angry texts. Insults, name calling, belittling, etc.

He decides to leave this morning and not come back.

So all day today he has been MIA. Has not see the kids once today.

With tomorrow being Fathers Day, is it wrong of me to not do a damn thing.

Don’t get me wrong. If my children want to cook him breakfast we will, if they wanna wash his car we will… I just won’t put in any extra effort

Am I being petty?