Thought they was out but then got a BFP

Meli • TTC # 1 with my husband of thirteen years I can`t wait to hold my jellybean. Hoping for a happy healthy baby🙏🏻
How many ladies thought they were out the game before missed period to only get the biggest surprise that they were pregnant?  I'm asking because I'm losing hope although I'm only 9DPO I guess it's my mind trying to protect my heart since it's been burned for so many years. I just need some hope,faith and positivity that I may still have a chance.