Feeling unappreciated

lala

Got into a fight with my bf and its multiple times he tells me that being a stay at home mom and taking care of our daughter is my responsibility not my job. Like yes ik he provides but damn i do a bog part in taling care of our daughter. He says all i do is cook for him and take care of our daughter and i shouldnt act like im doing so much. And im seriously starting to doubt myself and my strength. Because everyday i end up exhausted but according to him im not doing much. I try to take care of our home the best i can. Maybe its not clean 100% of the time but its not really that messy either. He works out of town but when he comes back i do cook for him. And i do take care of our daughter every day. Plus our dogs and one of them is a pupoy which is a lot of work. And im exhausted every night but damn am i really dking that little? Im tired of constantly doubting myself because he doesnt make me feel apprecited or like im enough. I knkw im not perfect but fuck. Idk like rn the kitchen is a mess and im choosing not to clean it til later because i dint want to hear my daughter cry the whole time (her nap isnt til another hrs) and that got me feeling like in freaking lazy. Idk yall. Im tired of this.