Idk what to do pls help

So my ex boyfriend and I have been dealing with each other for a little over a year now. We broke up after our first semester in college together due to him not making friends and not really allowing me to enjoy time with my friends without always being with him. He made the decision to join the military at the beginning of my second semester in college. He very much so wants to get back together, however I fell out of love with him a little before we broke up. We still talk everyday basically as friends. In a September he is getting deployed to Turkey for one year and after he will be going to Germany for two. I’m not willing to do a long distance relationship where there is a 12 hour time difference and I’m not allowed to visit. Idk what to do I feel bad even still talking to him because I feel like I’m leading him on…I need advice 😩