New kindergarten mom…. Does it ever get easier?

Sa

My girl had only been away from her Daddy and me once in her entire life, which was when I had her baby sister back in November. We all cried like big ol babies then.

She just started her first day of school after being with me (SAHM) every day for nearly 5 years (she’ll be 5 on Saturday). I cry every morning at drop off and I cry through the day. I’m constantly checking out local news to make sure nothing is going on at or near her school every hour and refreshing the parent-teacher messaging app in case I’ve missed a message. I know it’s healthy to be away from your kids sometimes but it is mentally and physically hurting me…

She has been brave at drop off every day but her teacher messaged to tell me she cries during the day because she misses her mommy and baby sister. She’s also having a tough time making friends. I know it’s only the 3rd day but friendships are established quickly in elementary school. It’s really hard to hear her say nobody would talk to her at lunch and she played alone at recess. And the little girl next to her in class “pranks” her every day (her words). She’s timid, so I know most of it is just her having trouble putting herself out there. But it makes me so sad picturing her at school while everyone plays together and she’s alone.

Does it mentally get easier to just leave your baby at school? And stop feeling guilty like you’re a bad mom for abandoning them at school. (This is just my mom's anxiety telling me that I know)

For the moms with shy babies, did it ever get easier for them? My girl is a crazy silly sweet kid but I’m afraid she’ll never come out of her shell at school 😞.