I've had several miscarriages myself. My boss told me she was trying to get pregnant and when she was 6 weeks pregnant, she confided that in me. She's now 11 weeks and found out her baby doesn't have a heartbeat and measures at 9 weeks. She's started miscarrying and is obviously super distraught.

We are not super close, however, I feel like making her a little care basket with some cookies, a candle, and a note saying "This is really hard. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Here are some cookies for comfort and a candle to bring some light to your day. If you need someone to talk to, call me any time night or day."

Is that too much? Do you think it comes off as if I'm a bit of a kiss-ass, or too invested?

I'm totally doing it because I care and I've been there. It would be super private and I'd give it to her at the end of the day. We're usually the last ones to leave anyway.