I am begging for help

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I am at an absolute loss I feel absolutely hopeless. My ex still will not stop calling me from different numbers. I am probably going to have to get the police involved but I never wanted it to get this far. I don’t want my family to know because my mom has a tendency to make things a little worse. I get phone calls from my mom/my friends and when I pick up it is him. No caller ID over and over again. Texts saying I need to “kms” and much more. He is now saying he is going to show up to my house if I don’t unblock him. I won’t be reading negative comments on this post. All I can do now is take the verbal abuse and respond with “I no longer wish for you to contact me in any way” because he has me cornered and I am absolutely sick of it. He knows every single way there possibly is to really upset me. I can’t stand living like this anymore I need to make it stop I cannot handle it. I can’t tell my family members because they will just be mean to me. I have been documenting everything I am just nervous that he will go to extremes if I end up calling the police. He keeps saying “I’ll do what I have to do you think I’m afraid of cops?” He knows my location even with him being blocked I don’t share it with him on anything at all. He said he is able to ping my phone and get coordinates. I’ll get texts saying “didn’t know they let whores into the fair” when I was almost at the fair with my son. I am at a loss. I know some people are probably going to be negative on this post, but it is truly a very very hard thing to go through and process. Has anyone had to get a restraining order or PFA & how did you do it? I don’t know much about these things. I think my mom had to get a PFA on her husband at one time but I can’t ask her about it.