So my partner and I decided to try again a year after I had a mc. We’ve talked about if both of us are for sure ready to try again. I know I am and from what he’s expressed to me multiple times he is as well. The only problem is we aren’t having sex. I keep track of when we do it on Flo so I know when to test and everything. Basically we do it once a week which just isn’t enough. Especially because my cycle is not consistent. I’ve bought lingerie which sometimes works. Other times he says it’s pretty but doesn’t do anything about it. I try to kiss him where ik he likes it and he just kinda ignores it. He does work a night shift so I genuinely think he’s just tired a lot not that he’s not attracted to me. So I try not to take it to heart but it does sting a little. It kinda makes me feel embarrassed when I try, like I misread the situation all the time. We used to have sex all the time which obviously doesn’t last forever but only having sex once a week is making it harder to have a baby. I’ve already told him that if we’re ttc we need to do it more often and he acknowledged that but nothing came of the conversation. I’m just not sure what to do because I don’t wanna keep bringing it up because that doesn’t feel very sexy. But I also don’t want to have to be the only one initiating everything.