Caught up in an affair?

Question

I’m 25, he’s 39, almost 40 in October.
Married (but claims to be separated) has 8 kids (5 are hers that he took under his wing, 3 are from him, one passed away at the age of 4- so he has 2 biological kids).
He’s in the marines, almost at the retirement part so he’s a MSGT (something like that-E8-E9 ranking?)
We had sex on the day before ovulation, day of ovulation and day after.
The first session was more like a rape situation.

My question is, what do I do? He came over yesterday night to pick up something he left, and he pushed his way through the door again.. Do I tell the wife? Do I just block and move on and handle this situation on my own?

Answer

Tell his wife, and his chain of command. The military doesn’t take adultery, rape, and abuse lightly.

Answer

I would report him.

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The military likely won’t do anything to punish him. That is a total myth. It’s so hard to prove it and they cover for each other. Yes it’s against regulations but it is HARD to enforce. Tell the wife because they are almost definitely not getting a divorce. Then block him and never talk to his weird predator ass again. Don’t get involved with men like this unless they are actually divorced. But overall I would stay the hell away from uniforms.

Answer

If absolutely report it to his COC

Caught up in an affair?

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