So me and my son’s father haven’t been together in almost two years. He didn’t get to see his son this weekend, so he stopped by to see him for a few minutes. When he was here he told me that I would look a lot better if I was goth. I’m a female Mexican and never dressed goth. I guess you can say I don’t really have a style. I wear what I like. Most of my clothes are from SHEIN. I’m 32 and he’s 31. At my age I shouldn’t be feeling jealous of women who dress goth but now I am. And everytime I see someone goth I just get jealous because I know goth,alt girls are all the rage these days. Seems every time I drop his son off he makes jabs at me and what I do, how I talk and how I dress. He makes comments on how he’s into thick curvy b*tches and even when I was pregnant he told me to dress different. I also found out his ex was curvy thick and dressed alt and emo. I’m petite and skinny. She has photos of herself dressing goth. I can’t help but hate her and feel so insecure of her and alt girls. Any advice I should say to him when he tells me this kind of stuff. I feel so angry and insecure these days.

He will send me memes like this claiming it’s him and his future wife.