I made a post asking if you could stay with your husband after finding this out. We have 4 children together. I found out with video evidence that he solicited a male prostitute into our home we share under the impression they were gonna have sex and just beat him up for fun and found out this is something he's done before where he solicits prostitutes to beat up and has done other things I won't get into. As far as I know he's never cheated on me. He just gets off to beating up prostitutes and watching other people beat up prostitutes. I am staying with family with my kids. My MIL reached out to talk to me to tell me this isn't my husband's fought and he was introduced to this at a young age. He had really bad anger issues as a kid so her husband give my husband "whores to beat"(her words not mine) when he was 16. She keeps saying this isn't his fault and to not leave him and break up the marriage. He was introduced to this so young. My brother is telling me I need to leave. Even if it's true my husband is 37 now. He's had 20 years to realize what he was doing was wrong and my brother also used to be a prosecutor and said if anyone of those sex workers come forward my husband would be put in prison and some other things he had done could possibly even get him a human trafficking charge which I didn't really understand since they're sex workers wouldn't that be a prostitution charge. My brother just explained they consented to sex. Not the other violent shit my husband did and allowed other people to do. It's all fucked up. My kids want to see their dad and I know the easy answer is to leave and divorce. It feels hard to throw away everything. But at the same time that's psychopathic behavior and even if they're sex workers they're people. Plus if down the line someone does come forward my husband would go to prison and I wouldn't want to wait to for him. His mom just keeps blaming everything on his dad and begging me not to leave.

Edit: I know how he can go to prison. I was just confused about the human trafficking thing my brother said he could possibly get charged with.

Edit2: I've already left and am staying with family. Also with my MIL it sounds like she wasn't okay with it. However if you know her you know she's old school and doesn't believe in divorce and stays by her husband