Am I the a$$hole? Warning: TMI but I need to know

Annu

My husband and I are wanting to try for a baby or at least that’s what he says. He says he wants it but I’m not seeing it. Like it just seems like we don’t have sex enough especially during my fertile week. I’ll come onto him and I get rejected 85% of the time. It’s always I’m too tired, I’m not in the mood, or I’m too sore. It’s just frustrating for me because he says he wants to have a baby and I know I want that too more than anything but he won’t do the deed that makes it possible. Honestly, it hurts my self confidence cause it just feels like he doesn’t find me sexually attractive. I just don’t know what to do anymore but I also feel like an asshole for getting upset. So the question remains, am I the asshole for getting upset? Am I crazy to be getting upset over it?