What do I do?

Question

I moved to a whole different country out of love. I met a man a year ago, we have been living together in his home.
Recently, we have been having a lot of arguments where he has been more than abusive with his words/remarks. 
I’m not perfect, I can’t even explain what it is that I’m doing wrong to annoy him.
Tonight, we got into an argument and he told me he wants to live alone and I should just disappear.
I’m really frustrated and scared. I’m 27 years old, I have no where to go. I’m not in contact with my parents who live on a different continent, and I only moved here because of him.
Yes I’m employed and speak the language here.
I feel like I just want to die. Starting over seems like it would kill me anyway.

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I dont know the laws of where you are, but in the US and most other countries, that is your legal residence regardless of whose name is on the lease, who pays, or even if he owns. That means he has to legally evict you, which from the time he serves you (which he hasnt yet), is usually another 60-90 days. So dont feel like you have to scramble or be on the streets. But you cannot be dependent on someone who is verbally abusive so you must get your ducks in a row, no one deserves to live with verbal abuse. You say you have a job, maybe start from there and see if any coworkers know of someone looking for a roommate. Or maybe reach out to your family even if you havent been in touch, we moved overseas with no goodbye and very little contact with my family for a variety of reasons (mutual conflict for years) but a year later I contacted my dad with knots in my stomach that he wouldnt want to hear from me, but he did. I dont know your family issues but you may be surprised. One step at a time. Im a former DV counselor and have seen many women start over with no job and literally nothing but the clothes they are wearing because they had to run away, some with kids to support and no job experience. It's overwhelming but you may discover strength within yourself at a whole new level. You moved to another country and got a job in a foreign language, that takes balls...you can do this.

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I’d get back in contact with my parents and move back.

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Go back to whenever you came from. Reach out to family & friends. Start looking for work to support our self & your own place. Don’t make giant moves like this before you truly know someone.

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Learn your lesson! lol gotta use your BRAIN to actually THINK things thru beforehand rather than thinking thru your emotions. But you're still young. Get out now b4 it escalates and gets worse

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Look into local shelters

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I would either move back or start over where you are.

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What are you two arguing about and what do you mean he’s abusive? Is this abuse or is this the two of you are arguing and saying things to one another that isn’t appropriate for a relationship?
Go back to where you lived before moved. No shitty relationship is worth dying over. I see your other comment about being embarrassed. Who cares what anyone else thinks? It’s your life. You need to stop worrying about all that.

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