My Boyfriends Sisters HATE Me!!

Hey guys, I think I just need to rant a little bit. I’m sooooo freakin exhausted tonight! My boyfriend has three sisters all around the same age as me I just turned 28 on October 20th🥳 and they are ages 30, 29, 26. My boyfriend and I are the same age. My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship for the past almost 10 years. We started dating as teens and we both come from broken families (him being in foster care) so we didn’t know how to love each other correctly etc, but we’ve worked on it over the years and it’s gotten so much better. We have 3 kids of our own, ages 7, 5 and 2 months old.. I do regret not getting married before having kids but I don’t regret my kids.♥️ I feel like my boyfriends family has always had something against me because we live 2 hours away from them and he don’t visit often at all cause he just don’t have the means to do so. We have been struggling financially since I got let go from my job in February and with my baby due in August I just didn’t look for another job. In the past my boyfriend has left our little family and moved up there to “better our lives” but it wouldn’t work out and he’d end up moving right back. We live in a small town so not much job opportunity around us. With him stressing about providing for our family he goes to drinking spending the some of the little bit of money we have on beers. Which infuriates me because for one I have to borrow gas money from my family right now because he just started a new job and we lived paycheck to paycheck before so no money has been saved. And for two he is a angry drunk most of the time so he gets real hateful towards me.

Which brings us to tonight. Tonight he told me he had been talking to his sisters and he has been planning for awhile to move 2 hours away with one of them to make better money since his current job isn’t providing him with enough money. And that he was doing this to “provide for his three kids” I was trying to reason with him (not getting angry or anything) but he was just being so hateful towards me said he was “gonna do it and I wasn’t gonna talk him out of it.” That it was his choice and no one else’s. And he stormed out the door. He was talking as if we wasn’t in a relationship at all and we’re not suppose to make theses decisions together.

When he came back inside he told me wanted to listen to my reasoning to why he should stay here but then would proceed to not listen to my reasoning maybe I was too upset to be having the conversation at that time so I wasn’t considering his side. So I told him to call his adopted mother and ask her what she would do since she was a very wise women. He did so and she agreed with me 100% but I guess she said it more of a understanding way or he just respects her more then me… i dont know..

I do know I have a job interview tomorrow and I’m pretty sure I will get this job. Do I even want to continue this relationship with the fear of him leaving every year about? I’m so exhausted. I don’t even think this man loves me at this point, maybe he don’t even know what love is..