Am I the asshole?

Question

I’m trying to conceive and I really would like to keep it to myself if I do. I have one child with my boyfriend but would I be an asshole if I didn’t tell anyone I was pregnant until the second trimester ( or whenever we start doing ultrasounds)

Answer

It’s actually really common to wait until second trimester since risk of miscarriage goes down

Answer

No, besides the people who *need* to know, we still haven’t formally announced our 6 month old. We didnt tell a lot of family until I was 31 weeks.

Answer

No. You can do whatever you want. Nobody has the right to know unless you want them to.

Answer

Announcing is entirely up to you! It's totally fine to keep it secret until the second trimester

Answer

Most people wait. You do you.

Am I the asshole?

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