TMI but OUCH HELP

I am tearing… down there.. where the lips come together at the hood. Considered mons pubis I’m guessing. 🫠 Looks like when you get chapped lips and I have 3 little splits. They itch and BURN it’s driving me crazy. I’m 23 weeks pregnant and my dr says just keep them moist with Vaseline and let them heal. I’ve been wearing panty liners and coating in aquphor and neosporin for 2 weeks now and nothing seems to help. 🥲 I’m not dry what so ever down there. I’ve changed panty liner brands in case they were too harsh, started washing down there with only my hand versus a loofah or rag, I wipe gently. Idk what else to do! Has anyone else had this happen? If so what should I do? It’s so bad it wakes me up 😔 Thanks in advance.