Looks isn’t everything..

Hey ladies.. This might be long but I need to get it off my chest.

So I started dating a guy that I work with (same company but different departments), he is so kind and caring and would do anything to make me happy and that is why I started dating him. The problem is is that I thought I would grow more attracted to him while I was getting to know him but it has been almost 3 months and I am at the point where I’ll have sex with him so it doesn’t seem like something is wrong between us. I love sex and would do it 5+ times a day with a guy that I’m attracted to but with this man it’s like I’m always stalling. We have not said we love each other but i do know that he likes me way more than I like him, I have yet to compliment his appearance but he is always complimenting mine. We work at a small facility and everyone loves him so i feel like if I break up with him I would need to find a new job. Before we got together his last relationship ended 6months prior and it was a TEN year relationship that he says was very verbally abusive (we are 24 years old) so this man thinks our relationship is great and even if he didn’t then I don’t think he would say anything because it’s better than what he had before and it took him ten years to leave the relationship he was miserable in.

I have been thinking about breaking it off for awhile now but its hard when I work with him and his family loves me and wants to make plans all the time, i just feel like I’m getting more stuck as the days go on. Valentine’s Day is this week and he has been so excited; we also have a cash bash party with his family the following weekend that will cost him $75/ticket and I would feel bad to devastate him for either of these weekends but after that should be clear. Do I break it off now and not worry about the weekends coming up or do I push through and wait till after both weekends??😣