Have I hit the breaking up point ?!

I’ve been in love with the same man for 10 years , we barely started dating 4 years ago , and I moved in with him 2 years ago , we have the most amazing sex , he gives me the best motivation and is an amazing family man. We want kids but we haven’t conceived yet. So we got a dog and he freakin loves this dog because he claims to feel the fatherhood experience again. I love this man and I’m aware he’s perfectly imperfect. But he does manipulate my feelings , his love language isn’t physical, and I’m super loving and I hate the fact that it doesn’t feel rhetorical , he’s obsessed with the tv and we don’t have much to talk about because he’s still stuck in the matrix. I want him to have spiritual growth just like I do but I also understand that I can’t enforce anything. I constantly have thoughts about letting him go because we both deserve to feel seen and understood in a profound level. I feel like we click mostly on a superficial level like sex , social norms and the ordinary life. But I don’t see him meeting me half way soulfully and our dog receives more affection than I do . He finds social media and tv more interesting than interacting with me. But he does have an amazing heart and he’s hardworking and very down to earth for his loved ones . He’s perfectly imperfect. I can see his flaws and mines as well and there’s love and support for the not so beautiful part of him. But I I realize that we deserve a life full of goodness and passion and for our lives to be full of muse. I don’t know when’s the right time to let go. Or am I exagerating ? Or is it time to break free from. This illusion that he’s my true love