What would you do?

So should I be still acting like a wife after my husband disrespects me the other day, by that I mean should I still be cooking for him,cleaning etc, he said some pretty mean things like how stupid I was to forget to get the money I had save for emergency at home but I remember that I asked him if he got it and he said yes before we left(in my mind I thought he knew where I placed it and got it) so back at the store we had to leave our cart and leave the store but before he left he said how stupid I was to forget it,like I understand the situation but there no need for him to use that language with me right? I felt disrespect In the car I told him how I felt and he basically said well you should have forgot it.basically saying he had reason to say those things (he didn’t have any extra money on him to buy it so he relied on the one I forgot)

I was angry so of course I totally told him how it’s not fair that i heard him say yes in getting the money for him to be mad at me and it hurt my feeling for him to say things like that and well he didn’t cared so I told him next time you want to talk about this I’m all ear but for now I don’t want to talk to him (I live with him) so we didn’t talk all day I didn’t cook for him I didn’t clean for him I just attended my son and his needs

Next day in the afternoon we haven’t talked and when he goes to work he sends me a text saying “it gets me mad that my wife doesn’t cook for me before I go to work😡😡”trust me I wanted to give him the whole paragraph about this and that but I always do that so this time I didn’t I just said “look I don’t want to fight with you I don’t want argue with you over text right now we can talk about this the day you want to fix thing calmly”and ended the conversation I didn’t clean nor cook for him that morning nor did we talk he tried to but he has a motto of “what happened in the past stays in the past”

So my question for you guys is

Did I do right? In not being a wife to him after he disrespected me in the store

Am I taking it too far? Did I do right towards his text before work?

What would you do?