I’m so upset by my partner.

The early hours of Thursday morning our daughter woke around 1am. She kept fighting sleeping and everytime we put her down she would cry. I made her a bottle, held and rocked her etc but she just wouldn’t sleep. My partner got annoyed and went into the livingroom and said “I’m going to sleep I have to get up at 7:30am as going on a stag do”. A stag do is a gathering the men have before a wedding. He was going to amaster dam and said he needed sleep or he wouldn’t be able to enjoy himself as would be tired so I can deal with her because I can nap when she’s napping. He kept going on and on at me saying he’s tired bla bla bla and he wanted sleep. I said “lucky you”, by this is meant lucky you getting sleep, getting to leave the country for 4 days, drinking & partying all day, going to his bed when he wants, waking when he wants, having an undisturbed sleep etc. He saw red and starting shouting at me saying no you have it easy, you can nap when she’s napping and just went in a proper mood with me and slept on the sofa.

The following morning he left for the airport and didn’t say bye to either me or our daughter. He’s been away since 8am yesterday, it’s now 7pm the following day and he hasn’t messaged or texted me to check in. He’s been posting over his socials and he seems very drunk.

I’m so upset. I know some people may think he’s on holiday with his friends, let him enjoy. I am, hence why I don’t want to text him. But I’m just annoyed he hasn’t even asked how our daughter is who’s only 11 months old? If your in a mood with me fair enough, but to not ask about our daughter just makes me upset. He’s out partying all night, not getting back to the hotel until 5am. It’s like he’s forgot we exist.