Bfs birthday gift

My bf said he only wamts one thingfor his birthday and its to have sex all day. A "sex a thon" as he called it. And hey im not knocking him for wanting birthday sdx but i explained to him we have a daughter. I can have someone take care of her for 3 hours max but not all day. He said she could juat go to one grandma for a few hours amd the next grandma for the other hours. I told him first of all i dont trust ur mom to takecare of her and second of all i dont feel comfortable trying to find someine to take care of our daughter all dayjust so we can have sex. He said its not like that that its only 1 day amd its not like we are constantlyleaving our daughter with people. Which is true but my daughter is 1 and a half and shes very attached torl meso ik she wouldnt like even being awau from me for that long. And idk i kinda got upset cause i kept telling him well we haveal a daughter we cant just have sex whenever we want. And he said ok whay if i get quickies all day whemever i want amd i told him its still gonna be tricky cause we have a daughter. And i suggested we could od it all night but he said hes gonna be tired. And idk he started to whine about home i got what i wanted for my birthday so why camt he get what he wants (mimd you i had 2 horrible birthday the years before this one because of him so this year i literallydid things on my terms and told myself i was going to have a good time) and i get annoyed necause this literallybrought up the conversationabout how he has no sexual disciplineand ofc he wouldwant this for his birthday. Anyways am i wrong for thinking the way he is acting is kinda childish. Am i wrong for being annoyed ?