Advice please

I think my husband is addicted to sex. Especiallythe last couple years its gotten pretty bad.. anytime we go without sex he blames me. I get blamed for not initiating it. And wne i do go down on him i them get blamed for not getting on top. These last few months ive made a point to go down on him for several weeks while i got absolutly nothing in return so now weve gone a couple weeks without doing anything.. and of course im the one to blame he yelled at me and said im not mature enough for the conversation and now were on day 2 of not talking to eachother. I feel like he acts like such a chald when hes not getting his fix every single day.. i try to tell him my feelings about it but that dont matter to him.. as soon as he knows I'mawake he wants his di** rubbed ot sucked and even thoughout the day. And i dont mean randomly its every second of every day and the only time he touches me its sexually he never just rubbs on me. And the only time hes nice to me is when he wants sex. He dont appreciate anything i do... i work from home while taking care of our 2 year old and he says i dont work becauze i wok from home taking calls which is mentally exhaustingand anytime.i.say im tired he comes back. Youre tired i worked such and such and you got to stay home im just at a loss. EDIT. I should also add that when i tried to talk to him about it he said it was deeper than sex..