Just venting

My husband is a piece of shit my mom had a biatric surgery on Monday!

It turns out she wasn't feeling well and she had internal bleeding (hemerage) luckily looks like it's controlled now, he was washing the car during this happened everything car seats seats etc.... I tell him I need to go the the hospital how should we do it with 2 kids under 2 ,he says he didn't wash the car for thing and that he wanted to go out. I feel like shit I went to go see my mom seems like she's doing better . Now he is saying he didn't hear the internal bleeding .

And he tries to say I'm the same because his mom got bit by a dog 7 months ago in apple valley and I don't want thin taking my car since I could have gave birth any moment.

Is this fair too me???

We had a huge fight we called each other a piece of shit he said I was filthy etc.... I feel like straight shit