Should I trust him/ them

So I usually am of the mindset that if you don’t trust them then you need to leave them.. And I do trust my boyfriend However there have been some really weird shit going on that I have been trying to ignore… a little bit of background.. my boyfriend and I have been very close friends for 5 years and have been together for almost 3 years.. we welcomed our first son into our family 2.5 months ago but during my pregnancy we had to go to 3 or 4 doctors appointments a week so if I was t working we were at the doctors

We have moved twice in the last 3 months and we are having financial difficulties as well as family craziness on both sides.. so we have a decent amount of stress

I have noticed some weird things/ behaviors from him lately and I want other peoples opinion on if I should just get over it/ don’t worry about it or if I should make this a big deal…

During the last 4 months of my pregnancy he wanted absolutely nothing to do with me sexually other then me giving him a blowjob… I was working crazy hours (he was not working) and I a lot of times would fall asleep as soon as I got home but there were a good handful of times I initiated it and he wanted nothing to do with me we would maybe have sex once or twice a month at that point

When you watch a video on YouTube there are adds on the side of the video you are watching.. about 6 months ago the adds on his YouTube account changed from random stores/ sales/ products to adds that are to “meet your soulmate in other countries” and cam girls and meet local women adds…. I confronted him about this I said my YouTube has never showed me anything like that for an add no matter what I have watched… he apparently has no idea why these are popping up and it is really fucking disgusting to me.. I am okay with porn just don’t fucking lie to me and I don’t think cam girls or anything where you are able to talk to anyone is okay at all… so idk wtf is going on there…

During one of my prenatal appointments towards the end they tested me for chlamydia and then some type of bacteria that they said was common in pregnancy… on the next appointment my doctor said “oh your test came back positive” I looked at my boyfriend he had a wtf look on his face and I had a wtf look on my face so I asked the doctor “what test? Chlamydia!? And she said “oh no the bacteria test” ……so on the car ride home I said to my boyfriend “it scared the shit out of me when she said the test came back positive because I forgot about the bacteria thing they tested me for” and he said “oh yeah I know, that would have been horrible” so I said kinda jokingly “you know they tested me at the beginning of my pregnancy for all of the STDs.. so for a minute there I thought you were gonna have a lot of explaining to do” and he didn’t say much after that… so that was extremely weird to me and it really pissed me off that he played dumb about it…

The one that is really fucking with me…

About a month and a half ago our friend and storage unit neighbor was waiting on her apartment to be finished so she could move in.. her new apartment is right next door to storage and my boyfriend offered her one of his bed frames insisted that she absolutely has to see and take one of these bed frames (one of the mechanical bed frames that you can adjust with a remote)

we were in the middle of moving twice so we found a cheap mattress that my boyfriend decided to set up in one of his storage units (the one that is across from her.. to try it out so we could return it if we didn’t like it.

One day he comes home. I didn’t even know he was gonna be at storage but “lets me know” he just saw our friend at storage and he stayed longer then expected and didn’t answer his phone or texts because he wanted her to “try our mattress out “ and was busy… which is just bazar as fuck to me to have another woman “try out” our new bed without me knowing or being there or okaying it…

There were about 2 or 3 more times this happened that I didn’t know he was even going to storage, let alone them hanging out, he didn’t answer his phone or texts and each time after he got home he said oh she needed to see the bed frame or whatever the fuck it was with the bed… it was something different each time..

Then it comes time for her to move into her new apartment.. my boyfriend asked me and our friend to help move the bed frame into her new place…. I agree.. HE GOES TO HIS OTHER STORAGE UNIT!! On the other side of the storage yard that is nowhere near where her unit is… where they were hanging out… where he was showing her the bed… you can’t even get into this unit without moving a bunch of shit first and he had to find the bed frames…. When he found the bed frames and pulled her one out of the unit our friend was “so excited to finally get to see her new bed”…. I’m fucking sorry… I thought you guys saw the bed frame several times? It turns out she never even knew he had another storage unit and was very curious as to what he had in the unit they stood there talking about it and looking through his stuff for about 20 minutes while I am waiting to carry this fucking bed frame over to her new apartment… none of this is sitting well with me…. We get the bed frame into her place.. and then of course he needs to go find the legs for the bed so i dig through his storage unit with him for about 1/2 hour to find the legs for the bed, we go back over there put the legs on the bed frame and leave… at this point I am dealing with the baby I go back home he was supposed to meet me at home but had a few things to pack up first… so he gets home later and tells me that he went back over to her place because she needed one of the legs adjusted…he also tells me he/ they tried out her bed to see the different angles the bed will do…..

Then 2 days later he goes over there again (without me knowing of course) because she decided she “wanted shorter legs on the bed” so “he needed to fix it for her”

And then today… I asked him to run to the store for me really quick it should take about 15-20 minutes… at the most… I called him about 3 times and texted him asking if he is okay? No answer….this man comes back an hour and a half later. I ask him where he was and he said oh I went to storage and I saw our friend so I talked to her for a little while… and then I went to the store realized I forgot something at storage so I had to go back…

Then he immediately gets food from the fridge even though I am making dinner he eats, lays down and takes a nap

I woke up earlier then him by about 3 hours today, he has done nothing except play video games all day and go to the store for me.. why is he so fucking tired? He slept through dinner and has just now woken up…

Am I right to be pissed off? Does this sound weird to you? Or should I ignore it?