Is this control ?

My car broke down on me April 19th 2024. My husband only has a 2 passenger work van he drives. We have a daughter and I’m currently 26 weeks pregnant . The only option for my car is to try and trade in . My husband got behind on the car he did have for almost 2 years. So it’s not drivable . To get back and forth to work I have to uber/lyft. It’s expensive and has depleted me. I have no help other than my in laws but they stay on the other side of town and have their own lives. I discussed with my husband about me just trading the car in and getting a new one. He feels that I shouldn’t do that and that we should get a car together . Though it sounds great , that can take a very long time from now. We have another baby coming in September . Time is not really on our side at least I don’t think so. Mind you this car situation is on me. It’s in my name so it’s my problem . So because I don’t agree with him he basically told me he would not support me to go to a dealership . I’m a woman and never done anything at a dealership by myself. I’ve always had my dad and even when I got the car that broke down my husband is the one who took me and helped negotiate what I didn’t know. I say all this to say I’m so stressed and depressed and sad . He feels I don’t respect him and his leadership but I feel confined to a bad decision he is trying to make for me. Idk maybe I’m wrong. SMH anybody with advice ?