I’m worried my family will dislike unique baby name
So we decided on a unique baby name that we’ve already heard moans and groans about after introducing the idea to everyone. They are all against it but honestly it’s not the worst name my partner has suggested. The worst of the naming process was when he was suggesting five plus names to give our baby at one time! And they all did not sound like names at all!
He is a huge anime fan and he was suggesting different anime characters names to be our baby’s name and trying to fit as many names as possible in. He sorta calmed down from that and now he has settled on one name. I’m only agreeing with his name choice because the name reminds me of a character from avatar the last airbender even though he claims to have gotten it from one piece.
Anyway I won’t fully disclose the first name choice because it’s my hope our baby will just go by his middle name since the first name is sorta out there 😅I want our baby’s middle name to be Axel. I’m a nurse and one day I was taking care of a teenager with this name and idk I liked it and thought it was unique. And there’s a tv character from an old tv show called the middle named axel so I’m like hmm seems like a legit name. It is unique but not so far fetched to where you can’t say it’s not a legit name.
But I’m afraid his family and mine won’t like either name choices. His family seems to have decided to uh offer their name suggestions to me since everyone has given up hope on the first name that my partner is giving our son. So they’re like oh we can just call him by his middle name and they turn to me to try to persuade me to their name they want him to have.
Like I get it, my partners mom went with angel names for her kids upon her mom’s suggestion. But I’m just like uh I’m a different person so I don’t have to continue the angel name thing? And then my bf’s cousin was also offering up angel names and I should’ve said why don’t you have a kid if you have so many good name suggestions 😂(she swears up and down she’ll never have kids yet wants to try to name mine..?) idk she’s cool but a bit pushy which isn’t bad its just awkward sometimes.
Then I heard from my dad and mom and they said they don’t want me naming the baby anything “crazy” or just unprofessional. I feel
like both our families want traditional names for the baby but idk I’ve never just liked the idea of naming my child something ordinary or regular without meaning or some type of uniqueness. Literally had an old best friend named Asia like the continent! I even knew a China and an India! Ik those are continents/countries but still shows that people have been giving their kids unique names for awhile now…
Edit: the name is kuzan or kuzon, I didn’t initially put it on here because I’m superstitious as hell and I feel like last time I posted about a name my partner came up with he went and changed it to something else so I had to deal with that rollercoaster all over again so I’m like maybe if I don’t post it too much or tell anyone he won’t keep changing his mind! I don’t wanna jinx it I guess..and yes I’d love for the first name to be axel but idk I feel like I have to keep the peace with my partner by letting him name the baby. He keeps blabbing on about an agreement I half ass made before our son was conceived that he would get to name the baby so yeah I feel like I’m stuck lol
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