I have been with my boyfriend 11months all we do is make love get drunk what would you do ??

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Basically every time we see each other we get a bottle drink make love he don't show love no other way but he feels everything is fine I'm fed up with the same thing but it's like we keep going round don't no what to do we hardly talk he just likes the way things are it's hard to get through to him somebody plz give me some advice ???

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He's looking for a drinking buddy and when it's time to hit the hay he's lookin for a booty call. Of course he'd like it this way cuz he's basically using u and you're allowing it. And yer also prolly using him too...? Good luck

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One option I don't see is "talk". Try talking to him about it.

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This sounds like an almost perfect relationship to me. Haha. Honestly if you haven't talked to him or tried to plan dates, outings etc he may assume you're just a homebody who likes wine and love making (there's nothing inherently wrong with that).
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​I don't think it's fair to assume he's "using you" at all, he may not be very verbal with affection. 
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I have been with my boyfriend 11months all we do is make love get drunk what would you do ??

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