Loss of V card, is it really that much of a deal?

Question

Im 20 soon to be 21 never did me and my boyfriend entirely had sex, i guess i was too afraid of whether it would hurt or not plus he was a virgin too and had much less of a clue than i did, now a guy I've liked for like a year is good friend of mine and asked how I'd feel about a free, he knows im still a virgin, and I'd be up for it if I weren't although im now afraid that i want it because i might have that silly crish on him yet again. On the other hand i know i can lose it to a great old friend who im sure will keep it quiet and all... But I'm really torned, what should I do?

Answer

Only do it if you are truly ready emotionally and mentally. To me it wasn't a big deal and I did it to get it over with but to others it's a huge deal and those that did it before they were ready had some angst afterwards. But if you decide to go for it be safe and use protection! Also have a game plan in case your friend doesn't keep quiet about it.

Answer

Id say go for it if you think you're ready. I found it easier to have sex with a friend because it's more comfortable and easy going especially since he knows you're a virgin and because he knows he'll know how to handle you. Don't be worried about the pain because it's honestly not that bad. If you're still worried, I heard good foreplay warms you up to where it won't hurt at all!

Loss of V card, is it really that much of a deal?

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