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So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. He loves going down on me but he gets so awkward when I try and go down on him! Like, it never happens! He gets so weird. In his joking voice he'll go "what do you think you're doing?" when I try to unbuckle his belt or unbutton his jeans and it makes the moment awkward. I get all timid and shy away from touching or kissing anywhere down there. The weird thing is that I know he likes to keep things quiet during that time too because when we start the foreplay and I try to throw some words out there he'll just tell me to shh or to keep watching tv. There are times when I'm sitting on top of him with my back to his face, getting ready to try and please him again, and he'll just sort of push my back down and pull me towards him so he can kiss me some more, which is great obviously, but again, it just makes the moment weird. I just gave this guy a freaking hand job for the first time three days ago. The shitty thing is that I'd like to think I use to be good at giving oral when I was with my ex and now I just feel like I'm not attractive or sexy enough. I can't tell him this because I know it'll turn into an argument but has this happened to anyone else? Anyone have any pointers to get back into the swing of things? I literally feel like it's my first time again.
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