Not in the mood

I feel bad for my poor husband because I want to have sex with him but my body is not on the same page! Despite using some coconut oil and trying a variety of positions, I'm just so uncomfortable through the whole thing. Not to where it hurts and I tell him to forget about it, but enough that it's not exactly enjoyable. I feel like I'm swollen down there and having sex irritates it lol. Anyone else?