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Am I overreacting...my boyfriend admits to looking at other girls...he says "I'm judging them but I never think she's hot or want them I only want you". I'm sorry my past has been shitty yes he is not my past and he's the best I have had but many if not all of my relationships ended with me being dumped for someone better or being cheated on. I can't help but feel so hurt am I getting upset over something stupid though

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You need to get past your insecurities, there is no bigger turn off. It's human nature to look at other people.

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Rather him look and not touch. Remember who he is going home to you not them. If you keep thinking he is gonna be like your past and jeep saying things to him he is gonna do something stupid just calm down take it one day at a time and breathe. You will get threw this.. hope this helps

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If you've looked at other guys and noticed whether or not they are good looking, then don't be mad at home for doing the same. It's normal. Going beyond that borders on cheating behavior, but you can't help but look at people and acknowledge if they are attractive or not.

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He can't possibly not look at anybody when going anywhere unless he is blind folded. Do you glance at people when your out in public? I bet you do bc your eyes have to be open to walk. Should he be mad at you for glancing? No. Now its a different story if he is breaking his neck to look at women.

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It's impossible not to look at other people. Do you notice celebrities and see any of them are attractive?

It becomes a problem if he is openly gawking at women and making you uncomfortable.

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After being in a cpl past relationships n not liking them look either cause they r with me, n they r suppose to love u n love how u look n having the bf that I do now who doesn't look at other women, no ur not over reacting. He liked ur body when he got with u, he should still like it now, y should he have to look when he's got u!

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If he is engaging the women and exchanging looks with them, you probably have a problem that needs discussing. This indicates insecurity on his part and a need to be validated outside the relationship.
If he is literally looking at other women only, he is normal. I'd tell him to knock off the bullshit telling you none of them are attractive to him, though. Tha fact is the human eye loves to gaze on what is attractive, because it is beautiful.
I have a hard time battling my own insecurities being pregnant and quite overweight at the moment, but in reality my husband doesn't look any more or less than he did when I was a size 3 and working out daily.

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I agree with the ladies... Looking is natural, and he's honest about it. I would overreact. I'm comfortable with my hubby looking, bc I know I'm gorgeous in his eyes and that's all that matters to me! 😉

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I think everyone looks. As a women I look at other men and other women.. I think its human nature?

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