How do you talk to your boyfriend about wanting a baby when he doesn't cause he already has 2...?

Question

My boyfriend doesn't want kids any time soon because he already has two. We can't really afford kids right now either but still. I want to talk about it. Make a PLAN or something! We're planning kids in the future but it's just talk...

I feel like I can't talk to him about my feelings about wanting to have a baby because he's like DEAD SET on not wanting anymore... Idk how to bring up my feelings... And not being able to talk about it is causing me to deal with severe depression...

Do any advice on how to talk to my boyfriend about this?

Answer

Well it's time you sat him down and just said "I want children. If that's something you want [soon]  then we need an action plan. If you don't want kids, we might need to have a different discussion."

No man or woman should stop you from having your life. It's your life. If he doesn't want kids, it's time to stop wasting your time and find a man who will love you and the idea of having children with you.

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Maybe try telling him that you know he doesn't want kids right now, but you'd like to know when he thought a good time to start trying for another would be. That way you could start working on saving up specifically for the baby as well as preparing yourself for pregnancy. If he doesn't want to give you a straight answer i would tell him that you need an actual plan because you don't want to wait too long to have one of your own. You could also try coming to him with the time you'd like to start trying for one and ask how he feels about that.

How do you talk to your boyfriend about wanting a baby when he doesn't cause he already has 2...?

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