Is this normal? He Takes too long to cum.

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I know a lot of girls complain about their SO cums so fast... But mine takes forever.. I don't know if he's not into it, or what? But he takes forever. And almost never cums inside me. I have to give him a handjob and then he'll cum.. Do any of you ladies know if this is something he should go to the doctor for? Help!! And thanks

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My bf had the same problem so I took to Google and it said that it may be due to his weight he is over weight so it affects his testosterone. BTW I read a few posts about people saying just enjoy it, well it is very uncomfortable for you to have finished and your body is done but someone is still poking it and I am a pleaser so I hate telling him to stop but after you finish and your body is done it hurts to keep going sometimes

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its about pressure for alotta guys try positions where u can squeeze ur legs together and dont lube it up to much... maybe thisll help #shrug

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Don't complain the longer the better I don't want someone who cums to fast

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My hubby takes a while sometimes and there have been a handful of times where he never finished.  A number of factors can contribute like too much alcohol, too much lube, being tired, etc.  As others said it could be psychological too.  I know some of the times my hubby didn't finish were because he tried holding out for me to finish and pretty much gave himself reverse "blue balls"?!  Don't be too obvious about your concern of him going too long because that can make him freeze up even more but let him know you enjoy what he does and are beyond satisfied without him needing to worry about you.  In the mean time relax and enjoy it, take the time to try new things and find what you really like!

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I think a lot of the time its psychological. If hes worried about having an orgasm fast enough, that can prevent him from actually having an orgasm.

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I don't see why you're complaining. You can switch positions, you can enjoy it. Do you orgasm?? Is he waiting on you before he cums??

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Mine has the same issue the first 3 and half months of are relationship he didn't cum once ... It's to much self love he was single for a very long time and watched a lot of porn

Is this normal? He Takes too long to cum.

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