Vulvar varicosties- so painful!!!

Oh my gosh seriously does anyone else have this? May be tmi but I feel like my vagina is ripping to shreds and to be quite honest is purple, swollen, ugly, and my god it hurts so freaking bad! I have iced, massaged, used hand towel for pressure, pillow between my legs, legs closed and legs open while sleeping! I literally can't seem to get relief! Sleeping used to help but now it is constant pain! Constipation doesn't help the issue and when I take a stool softner it helps for a day and I am back to constipation! Ahhhh😷💩🤕🤒😵😓😢😳👎🏼