c-section

ok so im expecting baby #2 im a single mom to my first child and i will b a single mom again well i have to have a c-section with this baby ..... im not scared of takeing care of 2 babys alone im more scared of the pain after the c-section cuz ill be takeing care of a newborn and a all most 3 year old ... would it make me a bad mom if cpl days out of the week i send him to the sitters over night that way its less hard on me so i can heal faster ? and any tips bout what i will need for a planed c-section would be appreciated !