Military soldiers

I have always had a respect for military soldiers male and female. My boyfriend is vet of 9 years in the army with deployment under his belt. So I known the life style and the people you meet are quite amazing. But I have dealt with soldiers who are complete ass holes. They tell me the reason they can be an ass to me is because they are soldiers. I almost got in a huge accident because he decided it was cute to cut me off while I was driving to the same place he was going to. I about waddled (8months pregnant) over to his car in the drive threw and bit his head off. Have you ever dealt with this?