So, as the title stated... My boyfriend goes out every weekend. I'm perfectly fine with him going out as much as he likes, because I met him in a club and I like to go out too! But we are both in college and very busy. We have no time to see each other during the week. However, he makes time to see his friends during the week. I'm fine with this too. What I do have a problem with is him making me feel bad every time I go out. He has expressed his insecurities about me many times, but I don't know what to tell him! He says that it's not okay for me to go out because I'm too desirable. He simply won't believe me when I say I don't pay other guys any attention. He says that it's okay for him to go out because he's "ugly" but I don't think he's ugly at all. We'll also go about a month without seeing each other because he spends every weekend with his friends and not with me. I don't want to be clingy but I really want him to spend more time with me.