Why is this so hard?

Question

So my husband and I have been TTC since June 2015 and it still hasn't happened. I'm probably going to get checked out if it doesn't happen in the next couple months, but I have to admit we haven't had sex as much as we should, I haven't bought an ovulation kit (I've just relied on Glow to tell me when I'm likely ovulating) and I have tried a couple of homeopathic methods, but I guess I shouldn't be surprised it hasn't happened yet. I think part of me hasn't really tried that hard bc I'm afraid if I do and it doesn't happen then there's something wrong with me and I failed. That said, do I even have the right to be upset that my best friend just told me she's pregnant, or that 4 people I know just had babies? It's getting hard to see the all of the announcements, but when I haven't done all I can, does it make sense to get upset? I'm starting to question how much I want this...has anyone else felt this way?

Answer

You will get there god will definitely bless you with it I also have mixed emotions from time to time getting pregnant is a huge deal it can be very stressful & when we don't see that other line we kind of give up hope & think & question how bad to I want this?....I mean sometimes I do & sometimes I don't but when hear someone else being pregnant this jealousy emotion takes over. I even find myself starring at pregnant women because I want to be pregnant. But when I get upset with my husband I start to have mixed emotions like do I really want to get pregnant. Sometimes I don't think he wants it as bad as I do he say he does but his actions show different there can be so many mixed emotions about why? Or why not? Or when....But don't worry we will get there we just have to hang in strong & when that moment finally does happen the wait will be worth it..... P.S I don't know how late this is but I hope by time u read this u have had your baby  much baby dust to you😊

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It's okay to feel that way, but just know that even a healthy couple can take up to a year to conceive and even during your fertile window it's only a 33% chance at best that it will happen. The odds are kind of against everyone. Even with an opk it doesn't change the fact that only 33% will get pregnant. So hold in there and seek help if you feel necessary, I see a lot of lovely ladies on here that used medication to help them ovulate and have consieved so it is possible.

Why is this so hard?

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